heya

i have thick hair  with a fringe (as i have a long face) that i have thinned and layered to make it managable. its naturally slightly wavy, but not in a good way. i cannot leave it to dry naturally unless i wear it in a ponytail or bun because it goes too frizzy no matter what i use.

i straighten my hair when going out - used to do it every time i washed my hair but it damaged it too much even with heat protection products. the thing is im really bored with it. it always looks 'too flat' when straightened now. i would love curly hair but i have too much hair, it just goes really big. some hairdressers have even refused to curl it!

i tried growing it past my shoulders so the curls would be longer but that didnt solve the big hair prob lol and the long hair just really annoyed me.

i dont know what to do with it and hairdressers never help!