I don't think you have anything to hide or be embarrassed about. I think I have long labia (I've never actually mesured myself, but they seem rather long to me), and I have never had any problems with them whatsoever. I must admit, I was a bit worried about them when I was learning about sexuality and all that, but ever since I've been sexually active I've stopped worrying. None of the boys I've been with (and there have been a fair few (I'm not bragging!)) have ever complained or commented on them. In fact one of my boyfriends liked to suck them! Anyway, I soon found out that this was perfectly normal and had nothing to worry about at all. I am even one of these girl who likes waxing myself brazilian style, as I don't see the need to hide them!

I don't think you should operate, and as somebody else wisely mentioned before, your boyfriend loves you for who you are as a whole.

Good luck and don't worry!

Sissle_v

To prove you're not alone with your embarrassment, here's a recent question a member sent Dr Sarah Brewer. Vagina Concerns
http://www.ivillage.co.uk/health/whealth/gynae/qas/0,,583863_604453,00.html

Take care.
love Tara