we always do something for mums birthday, go for a meal like we did when she was here and then take flowers upto here grave..... it doesnt make it easier but it does make it slightly more of a happy day. i always try to think its like mum is looking down on us, together on her birthday..... which i know she would love!!

THE BROKEN CHAIN
We little knew that morning,
That god would call your name.
In life we loved you dearly,
In death we do the same.
It broke our hearts to lose you.
You did not go alone,
For part of us went with you
The day god called you home.
You left us peacefull memories.
your love is still our guide.
And though we cannot see you,
You are always at our side.
Our family chain is broken
And nothing seems the same,
But as god calls us one by one,
The chain will link again.
love you mum.
CO-CL FOR TTCAL AND TFAB