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niki68

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Message #:366.2 in response to 366.1
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Date:28-Jun 00:00
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Found out my husband and i both had fertitlity issues back in 1995 when we tried to start having a family. We then began IVF in around 2000 and have know given up on that after 1 miscarriage and 1 cervical ectopic that we had to terminate.
I am currently struggliing to deal with childlessness as my Brother had a baby 2 years ago and my sister is pregnant with her first baby....Most of the time i am content with my lot as I love my husband more than life and would give everything for him...he is my best friend and my greatest support.
Niki
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stella_al

Last visit: 24-Jul

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Date:24-Jul 19:45
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Good evening Ladies,

Sorry if my comments in last post (Mellers)came across as maybe a little light hearted!
Probably trying to give myself a kick up the a*** (uk) or a*** (US) and forcing a smile.

Just realised how fantastic this site is. I feel your relief getting things out and online - better than in and out (should make a joke here - sorry !!)

me: Allie aka Stella (due to humungous amounts of the beer I drink- NOT to do with infertility...?!?!)

Age: 42 (last week)

How you came to be childless: Well - thats a good one.....No reason....seriously...unknown....TTC 12 years

How long you have known you will be childless: Probably for the last 20 years TBH Noone is THAT lucky when they are younger and dont want to be..PS Is it Karma ??!!

How you are feeling today: Actually quite good :-) Thankful I have found this site :-)Thankyou for being there when I'm not so good xxx

Love to you all and have a good - not bearable but good - weekend !!

Al xx
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