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hi G
i had my first baby at a hospital and hated the treatment i got there - the birth was ok but the after care was appauling and i discharged myself even though i should have stayed in longer. i said that if i ever had another baby i would go to my local Midwifery led unit. as it happened i ended up booking in at my 2nd nearest hospital instead. All i can say is thank god i did , as i had a very straightforward delivery 2nd time - he was born just 55mins after arriving there . i was all cleaned up , had tea and toast and was about to go to the maternity ward when i suffered a Huge post partum haemorraghe. Within seconds of the 3rd gush of blood , there were 3 midwifes, 2 consultants and 2 registrars in the room frantically working on me to save my life. if i had been in a midwifery led unit , they would have had to rushed me to hospital by ambulance but it may have been a different story, basically they had to contract my uterus as quickly as possible with the help of 2 drips, suppositories and injections or it could have been fatal, i also went into shock and was given oxygen and another drip which also saved me.
its a personal choice and i know what happened to me was rare , but i was classed as low rosk through out the whole pregnancy, so technically i could have opted for a birthing centre .
its personal choice, i think it depends how near your nearest hopsital is to the birhting unit and you need to be aware that your birth plan could possible go out the window . you may plan on having little pain relief but as its your first,you dont know your pain threshold. if you need an epidural, most birthing centres/ midwifery unite dont offer this facility!
i think be open minded, dont let my story put you off and think it thru
good luck and all the best whatever u decide G
Nicola- mums club oct08!
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