I don't know whether I should be here or not.  My baby has just died I was nearly 17 weeks pregnant, but they said that my baby had died at 13 weeks. 

This is my 9th loss and I am really struggling.  I had been taking clexane and aspirin and I thought everything was ok.

In my bloods it has shown that I had antibodies for parvo virus so I don't know whether I have come into contact with this and this has caused the loss. 

It hurts so much.

Pen xxx

Dear Pen

I am so thankful that you have found us but so very sorry that you needed to. All the ladies here understand the pain you are sadlly going through and the journey you have now found yourself on. We are here to support and help you on that journey.

I lost my daughter in Sept 08 after she was born in dec 07 with a severe level of brain damage, the pain of losing a child is horrendous, it is all encompassing and hurts so much. It is a pain we learn to live with but that takes time.

I am so sorry you have been through such a tough time, take time to grieve to allow your brain to process what has happened.

Please keep talking it really does help

take care

Pippa

Thank you Pippa,

It just hurts so much I am finding it really hard.

Pen xxx