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From:newmummy2009  Member Icon
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Date:4-Nov 12:16
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Only me again

basically been to the hospital today ,

thought i was going for a scan and to take that horrible tablet to get things going,

but they have asked me to now wait till monday morning .....!!!

said because the baby is still there they want to make sure that all was not ok and to give it a week from monday gone so they can check to see incase there is a change in the development ??

surely if there was no heartbeat there wont be no change ??

but still no bleeding or cramps everything just seems so normal still !!!

my uterus and cervix are both tilted but surely this wont change nothing ??

i want to wait till monday but am i just kidding myself , what would you ladies do ?

if my tictac as gone then i want this over with asap , but now im more confussed than ever

think im going mad :(

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From:jojo_17  Member Icon
To:newmummy2009  Member Icon
Date:4-Nov 15:57
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Hi Samantha,

Sorry to hear what your going through, i usually post on RMS but just wanted to reply to your post.

Has the EPAU not checked your hcg levels??? When i was scanned previously but and nothing could be see on the screen they checked my HCCG levels which where only 500 which is to early to show on a scan ( my dates where wrong) they then re check them after 48hrs and they should double, mine rose to 1554 after 48hrs.

I was just thinkin if they could check your levels if they are rising thats a good sign but they do drop you know for def whats happening.

I hope everything goes ok for you hun

 

Joanne x x x
 
m/c May 2002. DS born March 2003. m/c Feb 2006. m/c Feb 2009. m/c July 2009. m/c Sept 2009
 
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From:cl-littlewoman  Member Icon
To:newmummy2009  Member Icon
Date:4-Nov 16:44
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(((hugs)))

They did that with me although I miscarried naturally before the second scan.  They like to double check that a baby has grown their wings, the same as when someone dies while on life support they do lots of tests to make sure.

Love Sophie xx

CL on coping with miscarriage.  CL on postnatal depression

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From:weelightning  Member Icon
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Date:5-Nov 00:45
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hey so sorry to hear you are going through this but with both my MMC's they did the same

stay strong hunny and look after yourself

elaine xx

xx Elaine xx

Elaine (27) and DH Andrew (41) married in June 2008 TTC #1 since August 2008, MMC December 2008 amd September 2009 2009 gone but never forgotten baby angels xx

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From:newmummy2009  Member Icon
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Date:5-Nov 10:49
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Hi

i asked them to check my hcg levels but they wont ??

is there anyone else i can ask to do this check for me pls

thank you

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