Well my idiot DP has really overstepped the mark this time. A while ago his brother asked if his wife could stay with us for a few days in November as she had to attend a training course for her work in a place near where we live, I said yes of course, what DP didn't tell me right away was that they wanted me to look after there one year old baby as well!
As soon as I knew they wanted that ( and this was 2 months ago) I told DP that no way was I up to looking after a baby and to tell them sorry but no.
Turns out he didn't bother to tell them and tonight he had the cheek to accuse me of being selfish and letting his family down, that I only ever thought of myself and looking after a baby would be no trouble and good practice for having two kids. What gets me is that he was actually angry and shouting at ME saying that it's not because I can't but because I don't want to.
I said exactly, I don't want to! and I told him this months ago, why couldn't he just have been honest? he seems to think that because we got past the amniocentesis and the 18 week scan was allright that everything is just fine and that I'll be okay.
Well It's NOT fine, there's still a risk of heart defects and he seems to forget about the baby we lost in January, he thinks now it's suddenly okay now because I'm pregnant?

Arghh!!! Sorry about the rant ladies but I just need to get this off my chest before I explode, I feel so let down , I keep asking myself what the hell am I doing with this ignorant selfish utter pig of a man?
He'd better damned apologise to me I just want to stove his stupid fat head in with the Iron or something.

Why are men so stupid eh?

Marie Frances x.

Hiya

I don't blame you for acting the way you do, think i would of acted the same way

love

cheryl

Mummy to angel Emily and her to little boys Ben and Samuel co cl of mum's club april 08 and Pal cl of birth stories