I have been waiting since last wed to miscarry. Now it feels like its ready to start. Last night i started to spot  and now my belly feels ready to explode. i know after the other times what to expect but i dont want to go through it again.

Im getting nervous as it is always a terrible experience i have had very heavy bleeds with past m/cs and last time it was absolutely agony that had continual gushing for 8 hours.

Sorry about the details but im dreading it so much. I was hoping to hold off for a d&c bloody nhs making me wait.

Im devastated to be going through this again but i suppose i have to if i want to try again.

Helen x

hi helen

just wanted to send you some ((((((((((hugs))))))))))) just the emotional side of m/cing is hard enough but then you have the horrid physical side of it too!! pls look after yourself hun and try not to worry too much! make sure you have some painkillers in! i hope its over soon and your not in too much pain

hugs

I'm so sorry (((hugs))).

I hope that it can be over soon hun, it's awful being in this position and I'm so sad you have had to wait like this.

Take care and remember we're here if you need us.

Thinking of you xxxxx

Dear Helen,

Just sending you hugs - I'm so sorry to hear about your loss and I hope you have got over the worst of it. Waiting for an MC like that is horrid, I remember waiting three weeks for one myself back in 2007. I was devastated but didn't want an EPRC.

Do you mind me asking how many MC have you had? And do you know why they keep happening? Are you getting good medical support?

hugs

sweetgingercat

Thanks for your reply.

It really helps talking to people who understand what its like.

I have had 3  miscarriages and i have asked for a referal to a consultant only to be told she doesnt need to see me and its her decision as im too old. I have just turned 40 and have no children, infact all pregnancies have ended before 8 weeks. I would think my age should make me priority. I will find out tomorrow if she will see me. So much for the NHS, i have never felt so let down

Helen x