Hi girls..

Just wondering if anyone can help me please..

I was due on period Saturday but haven't come on yet! I think I may be preg.. but I don't know who the father could be... Boyfriend of two years or ex!
I did have sex with them both but with a few days between. I know how stupid I have been.. Can't believe it myself, :(
Me and my boyfriend have thought about trying for our own baby.. which makes it even harder.
I BD on the 18th, 19th twice 20th and 21st, 25th, 26th Sept with boyfriend. And BD just the once with ex on the 23rd.. Could there be a chance its not my boyfriends?
I have worked out that I should ovulated 19th weekend.. My AF's are usually 26-28 cycle..
I am going to buy a test this morning. But would appreicate it, if anyone could help me!

Kirsty.xx

If you ovulated when you think then it would most likely be your boyfriend's baby if you were pregnant. There is always the chance that your cycle was different and you ovulated later, which would make your period due later, and therefore you might not even be late yet.

I think the first thing to do is to get a pregnancy test and establish whether or not you are actually pregnant before you start worrying yourself sick over who the father might be. Remember stress and worry can also delay your period.

Good luck and let us know what the outcome is.

X

OH MY GOD!! Done a test and yes I am pregnant!

It says I'm 4 weeks 2 days.. How do i work out who the father is? My last period was 7th September..

Kirsty.xx

Hi Kirsty

From your dates it is most likely that your boyfriend is the father of the baby, but it's difficult to be 100% certain.

A pregnancy is dated from the first day of your last period so if you think you are 4 weeks 2 days pregnant that would mean conception happened 2 weeks 2 days ago. On average that will be assuming that on a 28 day cycle you would ovulate 14 days after your period starts and the egg is fertilised that day.
IF that was the case then it would be your boyfriend's baby, but it is hard to know for certain and probably the only way to definitely know is by a paternity test if you chose to have the baby.

Have you thought about your options at all and what you might do now? I think it's important to consider whether or not to tell your boyfriend that there is a chance that the baby might not be his if you are planning on discussing this with him and perhaps keeping the baby.

X

Hiya.
My cycles can be between 24-28 days.. I calculated this month that I would have a 26day cycle, as that is the same as last month, so today would make me 2 days late..
So if thats correct, I conceived on 19th sept and i would have already been pregnant so to speak on the 23rd, when I had sex with my ex! Is that right?

I already have a child with my ex and it has been very difficult over the past 5 years..
I have made a doctors appointment, which is on Thursday to discuss my options and everything.
My boyfriend wouldn't stand by me knowing the baby could possibly be someone else's, He would be there for the child if it turned out to be his, but not me. And to be truthful, I don't want to be a single parent with two children, it has been hard been without the father there for my little boy already, don't think I could go through al that again with my boyfriend!

Perdie.xx