hi all

im tracey im 35 and pg i have 4 childrean

my problem is this p was not planned at all

i i have had 3 mc

1 in dec 06
2nd in july 08
3rd june 09

all the times i have got pg took 18 months

but this was unpled and we lost are last baby in june this year

i was on the pill but got so busy i did or get to take some my fault

i also suffer from endometriosis

me and dh said after last mc we would try again but this has taken up both back

im not sure what to do

my mc was not straight my last 2 was me bein rushed in and haveing op

i couldnt do that again im just so confussed what to do

tracey

Hi Tracey,

My co-cl and others who have been where you are can probably answer a lot better than me. However, I think a first point to make would be to se your GP to discuss your miscarriage history. If you want to have this baby, then you need to speak to the healthcare professionals to get some extra support for you and your DH at this time.

Hopefully the other members of the board can give you other more constructve advice, but I didn't want to read and not reply hun.

x

Hello sweetie
Welcome and congrats. Is scary having an unplnned pregnancy when you have a history of loss and also one of endo isnt it? After 3 mc I was diagnosed with endo in Oct 03. In fact Oct 16th! (This day is a b!tch for me as this year it marks the eDD f my 6th angel as well) I was told I would never conceive naturally - if at all. I had such damage to my tubes that I was an extremely igh risk of ectopic and that i MUST NOT ttc at all - and that if I fell preg it would be horrific. 11 mths later I was pregnant on the pill and condoms.... I had a huge bleed at 8 weeks - and yet the little monkey pulled thru and is asleep next door snoring away. I have had a tota of 6 losses and so far 3 ops for the endo, including a 6mth bout of HRT and injections and am now on the mirena coil which they now think reduces any endometrial growth and stops the condition worsening.
My last mc required an op as well - did you have what they call an ERPC? I realise hoe frightened yo must be and what I would URGE is that you call your GP first thing - explain your history and ask if they can get you scanned to be sure that the baby is in the right place. Do you know how many weeks you are as ideally they would want you to be at least 6 weeks. If they won't scan yet ask for repeated HCG bloods to see how your levels are increasing. If it weren't for the way your last loss came about I would assume that you would desperately want this child so my advice to you has got to be to sit tight and seek help

Please keep talking to me. I truly understand where your head is at. I know how scared you will be at the thought of losing again - which is why I want you to be seen asap x x x x x x

Proud Mummy to Jenson, aged 4, and Amelia-Grace, 18mths and six precious ^i^ babies

 

 

 

                    

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