Hiya

OMG its so frustrating waiting everyday.  I thought maybe my af was coming yesterday as (sorry for TMI) I had one occasion of blood streaked fluid when going to the bathroom.  But theres been nothing since.

FF moved my ovulation date as my cycle has been so long but even then I'm still not sure as to whether to believe them or not.  I did a pg test yesterday again and they are still negative.  Normally having a long cycle wouldn't bother me so much as I am used to that but because I have started charting etc I find it hard watching and hoping every day.

I haven't bothered going to the doctors because the last time I did she told me to lose weight.  Even though I have lost a stone and half since February and am continuing to lose weight I don't want to go back and see her as I was abit embarassed.

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Cathy

Hiya Cathy,

Poor you - I know how so frustrating it is watching your temps when you have erratic cycles.  Mine were all over the place before I started taking the Evening Primrose Oil and Starflower Oil capsules.  I still get the odd long cycle and I never really know when I will ov but I do tend to have an idea within about 5 days, which is alot better than it used to be.

I'm going stick my neck out here and say that I don't think you actually ov'ed until CD56 ..... perhaps not even then, depending on what your temps do over the next few days.  If they stay up I would say CD56, if they dip again then maybe not, in which case you're still in the game.

I'm sorry if this isn't quite the response you were hoping for but it may explain why you have had BFN and no AF.

Take care and keep smiling ...... oh and keep BDing!!!

Lou

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i think you may have ov'ed on cd 60 hun and the blood tinged cm would tie in with that.

im shocked and disgusted that the only help your doctor could give you was lose weight!!! yes it does help but she would have helped you with a diet plan and set a target to which, if it didnt help she would do some tests as to why you have such long cycles.... hun you have every right to be helped with this and i think you should think about seeing a different doctor....no one even a doctor has the right to make you feel like you cant ask for help!!... im quite cross!!!

((((((((((hugs )))))))))) i think you should put the blood streaked cm in as spotting hun and see if that helps ff

love

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Hiya

FF changed my ov date to day 60 today.  If thats true then I really am out this month for sure as we haven't really been up to much this wk if you get my drift.

Grrrr.  Oh well.  If its right then hopefully it will not be long til we can try again for the next month.

Cathy