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catmadlou

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Discussion Title:Confused and frustrated!!!!
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Message #:37868.1
From:catmadlou
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Date:6-Nov 09:21
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Hi Ladies,

Well I took my temp this morning - 36.8 as per normal.  Then did a FRER test and nothing - complete BFN - not even a glimmer of a line!!!

What is going on with my body and my temps?????  Is the fact that I want to be pregnant so badly making my body have the symptoms - I genuinely 'feel' pregnant - achey boobs (particularly just behind the nipple), lots of CM, mild AF pains for the past week, very bloated ..... the list goes on ...... but BFN!!!!!!!!

AF is due Sunday/Monday so I am going to wait til Monday and see what my temps do and if they are still high and no sign of AF I will do another test.

So deflated as I so wanted to be pregnant before my best friend has her baby in a couple of weeks times when I should have been so close behind.  I'm finding that I am avoiding her as I just cannot cope with seeing her at the moment - and I feel wrotten as I should be there supporting her and being excited with her during the last few weeks of her pregnancy.

Sorry for the moan but feel like crap today to be honest ......

Lou

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From:cl-mrs_penge  Member Icon
To:catmadlou
Date:6-Nov 10:52
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your temps are still looking fab hun!!! i know its frustrating .... but if that is a implantation dip you have only give yourself 3 days to get the hormones upto a testing levels!! ((((((((hugs))))))) i, for one, am not keen on fr's, i will go so far as to say i think they are total crap(sorry)

im a poas addict so when i fell pg this time i used all sorts of tests, i bought a 2 pack of fr's ...one was a bfn even when the same sample was showing bfp on a different test.

the second one i did at about 5wks and it was such a faint line i nearly passed out.. thinking thats it its happened again!!!!

im not saying the test is wrong hun ..... i just dont think they are such a great test. and this is only my opinion iykwim!!

(((((((hugs))))))) i know its hard, after i lost my first angel the woman i worked with was two week behind where i should have been and i had to work with her everyday it was so hard!!

im sure you friend understands hun

dont EVER feel bad or sorry about moaning here my lovely lovely lady, scream,shout, cry ... we understand!

lots of love

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From:cl-hloulou31  Member Icon
To:catmadlou
Date:7-Nov 11:53
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Oh hun so sorry this is all so confusing for you. TBH I am useless at temps and dont really understand, although I do know you have a temp rise when you ov. Is is supposed to stay up then. Arghhhh. My chinese herbalist needs me to do it and I jump out of bed every morning then think OH HELL my temps, so I am sure mine are not at all correct.

Dont give up hope hun, if your temps staying the same and all the symptoms, it must be looking good.

We all understand about the timing of PGs hun we really do, and unfortunatley mother nature does not listen to our begging all the time. I hope so much you are pg this time and hope to see your balloon hun.

Loadsa love hugs and luck

Lou

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From:kazzee2007  Member Icon
To:catmadlou
Date:8-Nov 13:12
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just wanted to send you some (((((((((((((hugs)))))))))))) hun! TTC is so darn hard and our stupid bodies not working like they should REALLY DOESNT HELP!!! i have been TTC for over 5yrs now, have got 4 precious little angels (one was ectopic) and throught out most of them, someone i knew was pregnant! infact when i was pregs with ectopic my SIL was same weeks as me but carried my little niece to term, it was very very hard, i couldnt face her throught out most of her pregnancy but in the end i was soooo excited to see my gorgeous little niece! you will get through it hun, we have to!!! but i cant help but think that one day we will all be sat here with our precious little babies and our angel babies watching over us too!

i really hope that BFN turns into a lovely BFP hun! dont forget, some ppl do implant later so wont show a BFP till later on too! got crossed for you hun!

hugs

kazz xxx

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