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gemma81

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Message #:1499.1
From:gemma81
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Date:13-Oct 09:48
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Message:

would just like some advise please, currently have a contact order in place my little girl sees her dad every other weekend adn stays over night and once during the week. He is now saying that he wants to start taking her to nursery, would the court order this???

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From:cl-oh2bhappy  Member Icon
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Date:13-Oct 12:07
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I've not been throught the system, and hopefully someone who has will be able to help.  I'm guessing that he could take the matter back to Court to see if he can.

 

 

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From:cv-angel2007
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Date:13-Oct 15:37
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Hiya,

is the court order done and dusted or do you still go back every now and then to see how things are going?

If you do, he could ask for this at next hearing, if not, then he would most likely have to re-apply (another £175 or whatever it is now) and the court would listen to him. If you have huge objections the judge would take this into consideration, like if you thought this would disrupt your daughter etc, as long as you have good enough reasons and its not just because of your feelings they have to consider very carefully what they order.

Sorry if that doesnt help at all :S

Char xxx

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From:redhelen  Member Icon
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Date:15-Oct 18:52
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Message: Why not let him on some mornings, it is good for children to have 2 interested parents & it gives you a bit of time & space.
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Message #:1499.5 in response to 1499.1
From:crazynat
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Date:16-Oct 13:20
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Message: what actually happens in a contact order? do they question the kids? my daughter is 4 and im really concerned about them questioning her cos obviously she duznt understand wots going on
natalie x
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