im so glad to read this as i was about to post similar and ask for a male opinion on what is really going on..

i have a 14months old work full time, study full time, earn more than hubby so cant reduce hours in current climate, and im knackered on a 24hour basis

he feels neglected,that i dont make an effort, that im not effectionate enough and i think what he really feels is that now our son loves me and needs me all the time that i dont think i need him to love me if that makes sense - which is sensless as in my mind im in a constant battle with missing my old life where all i thought about was him and us doing things..

never simple is it!

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