My S.sister is 31 wks pg (im now 27) and last night her baby died.

You can imagine how we're feeling but how on earth must she be feeling?? How can you ever get through something like this?

Its so shitty and wrong and mean and nasty and evil. Im so angry and sad and guilty and sorry for them and feel so helpless.

 

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Sam,

I'm so sorry to read the news.  My cousin lost her little girl and it was awful and I too never imagined how she was going to get through but I found my cousin just wanted to talk about her daughter Megan and did'nt want everyone to just pretend she did'nt exist(men usually!).

It will be twice as hard as you being pregnant will feel 10 times worse.  You cannot change whats happened but you can try to help her through this difficult time the worst funeral I have ever been too was Meg's it was awful to see somebody carry there baby in a tiny coffin into the church and my heart breaks for anybody that has to go through this and all of the family will be affected.

I hope you realise it's not your fault and you cannot feel guilty for having your baby ((((((hugs))))))

Emx

Awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww Sam

What a heartbreaking situation to be in and how devastating for them to get so far into the pregnancy.

My Thoughts and prayers will be with you and your family as you all come to turns with the sad loss of the baby.

I don't know if your a poem person Sam but this might bring your sil some comfort

THE BROKEN CHAIN

We little knew that morning,

That god would call your name.

In life we loved you dearly,

In death we do the same.

It broke our hearts to lose you.

You did not go alone,

For part of us went with you

The day god called you home.

You left us peacefull memories.

your love is still our guide.

And though we cannot see you,

You are always at our side.

Our family chain is broken

And nothing seems the same,

But as god calls us one by one,

The chain will link again.

Nikki x

Oh my God Sam that's awful. I am so very sorry for all of you.

(((((hugs)))))