had a misscarriage on sat/sun was 10+ wks very upset even though i had a feeling something wasnt right for few weeks was at dr during week he was nasty asked me what i was doing there call it a gut instinct i just knew am feeling very low as when i was spotting on sat i told dh and he was like am ok to take a beer while watching football i didnt say anything then as was having halloween party for girls and didnt wanna ruin it for them and they really had a great time then on sun morn after heavy bleeding phoned out hours dr they say go hosp which is 35 mile away so dh phoned my mum to see if she would sit with girls while he took me she said no as she had to see her mum her mum lives less than 5 mins away and sees her maybe twice a month so i rang my sis to see if she would take me which she did but wanted dh. i phoned him when i knew for sure baby was gone he said ah well we will try agin not helpful i know he was really upset too but i didnt neeed to think about that i had 2 mc in 99 but 1st one dint know was preg till i had loss which was exact same as this time except i knew from 6 wks that i was preg and 2nd found out on sat was preg  by mon baby was gone so hadnt even time to get excited im dreading seeing ppl as dh told absolutely everyone we know dont mean to go on just need to 'talk' feel very alone have very mixed feelings as apart from the sis that was with me i havent heard anything from rest of my family a hope u ok text would been nice but not really surpised as they never even came to see me in hosp after having my girls so why would they bother now.    

Hi

I am so sorry for what you are going through.

I can't imagine the loss you are feeling and to not have your families support at a time in life when you need it the most must be devastating.

Take care of yourself

Hugs
Helen x

I am so very sorry to hear of your loss and more so that you are not getting the support you need from those around you. The coping with miscarriage board was a great comfort for me after I had a miscarriage a few years back. 

I think sometimes people don't say anything at all rather than saying the wrong thing but I always appreciated the ones that acknowleged it to me.

Sending you ((((((gentle hugs)))))) and thinking of you xxx

Hi

I am so sorry to hear about your miscarriage.  Its such a shame that your family arent here for you now when you need them most.  I really hope there is someone close that you can talk too, a best friend or DH as trying to go through it on your own is very hard.

sending you ((hugs)))

wally