i had been with my boyfreind Jack, over a year, he was so supportive when he first found out i was pregnant and that he was the father, he was 15, and i was just turning 14, he was always round my famialy home, himn and my famialy were very close, my brouther who is 12, was very fond of him! everything was great, it was like a fairytale, i never ever thought id find someone like Jack! he was absoloutely amazing! but just the outher week my freind had told me, that she seen him kissing anouther one of my freinds, later, when he had got back, i had asked him weather it was true, and he actually addmitted it to my face, his exact words 'yeah i done it, whats wrong with that, im bored with you, i dont want to have that stupid thing inside you, (he was pokeing my belly) i just want you to **** of out my life, and im not giving nuttin for that baby, byee' i couldnt bring words to my mouth to say anything back, when he was pokeing my belly i dint even tell him to stop, i was so upset and angry, this just came so sudden, my fairytale turned into a nightmare! i cried for hours and hours, i still can get over it now! its only been just over a week, and when i see him he rubs it in my face, with his new girl, who was supposed to be my freind! i cant beleive him! im so hurt! i dont knw what to do anymore!!!

Shannon&BUMP'x

Hi,
This might sound really insensitive but good riddance. Do you really want to be relying on a nasty piece of shit and leaving a baby with him? It will be hard but if you want to be a good mum then you can do it on your own.

Becky x

Hiya

I had the same problem when i fell pregnant with DS1, his dad (now my DH) told me if i didnt get rid of him he would never speak to me again, i said i wasnt getting rid of the baby and we didnt speak until i was 7 months pregnant. Im quite strong minded and very opinionated and my DH is the total oposite, he is quiet shy and is never 1 to speak 1st. He had a go at me for not speaking to him sooner!!!! so we didnt speak for... about 5 and a half months! in that time he did go off with another girl as well. Id like to say there was a happy ending but sadly it doesnt always work out that way. DOnt be afraid of being a single mum, i know you have a big family and they will be there to support you and help you if you need it.

Me and my DH got engaged on my birthday after DS1 was born and got married on 09/09/09 and have a 2nd DS born 11th May :)

I know things might seem bad now, but once that little baby is in your arms you will forget it all (the feeling is amazing!)

xxxx

Love
Stef, Matthew and Alexander

Hiya

I had this when i was pregnant and it was more or less the same ordeal. Im 18 and got a 8 month old lil girl. My ex was there at the beginnin promising the wold and everything init. But he got bored and moved onto my friend, he did it more then once and muggins like me took him back every time he did it. The fairytale way isnt the best way you know, yeah its nice to think "Iv got the lad off mydreams whos gunna be there" but whats better the fairytale or you and your baby bein healthy happy and loved? This lad obviously doesnt want to grow up and live up to responsibilities so you know what you should do, concentrare on you! Ignore him and his bitch off a girlfriend and dont give them a reaction and hell get bored. Your "friend" is hardly a friend, but at the end off all this your gunna be a mummy, so you need to put him at the back off your mind ( i know its hard) but youv got more then you to think off. People have had a baby single and managed it so will you.

Chin up and everytime you feel upset, angry or pissed off feel your bump and smile!!!

Hope thats helped xxxx

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