I do a class and I've known the teacher over a year and fancy the pants off her. Every lesson I sit there looking at her and thinking how beautiful I find her and I imagining us together kissing and hugging etc. She doesn't seem happy with her husband from what she tells us. Apparently he doesn't treat her that well and all I think about is how much I wish I could be with her because I love her and have so much to give to her.

She's got children and I wouldn't want to do anything that could cause problems but this is really getting to me big time. I'm single and my last relationship was with a man but I've had crushes on women for years. I think I may be bi but because I've never had a relationship with a woman I'm not sure.

What do I do to explore my sexuality and how do I go from here? I'd like to be able to tell her that I'm in love with her but worry I'd make a fool of myself.

Thanks,

-xPipx-

hi there ive been in a situation where i like someone who i work with it was hard knowing i was thinking of her in a different way to her thinking of me. it just ended up neing a situation that i appreciated her from a distance as nothing would even come of it one cause im married and wouldnt do anything and secondly she clearly wasnt that way inclined (lol) anyway i didnt ever want to loose what friendship i had so i was happier just thinking of her

not sure where it will go as far as your concerned but be carefull dont do or say anything unless you are sure its recipricated

take care Shellie xx

Thanks for the advice. How do I know if she's interested in my or not without directly asking her? I know what you mean about not saying or doing anything unless I'm sure she will reciprocate my feelings but what if she fancies me in the same way I fancy her but is also afraid to say or do something ?

ARRGGHHHHH so frustrating !