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mars2009  Member Icon

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Message #:5015.1
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Date:3-Nov 12:26
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Message: My boyfriend get out of bed every morning at 4am to work he works mostly at home. Most mornings i get out of bed late.however one morning i got up @ 5am went in to his office to greet him,as i was coming through the door he started to click on the mouse in a suspicious way so as i was bending to kiss him i took a peak at the monitor,my god it was all pics of nude women on screen.He don't know that i saw ,should i discuss it with him or stay quiet?
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twiceshy

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Message #:5015.2 in response to 5015.1
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Date:3-Nov 20:40
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Message: Hi
Best to come clean and tell him your opinion of it. He is an individual who can decide what makes him happy. The way you tell him makes the difference really between accusation and enquiry. If he likes porn then try and make sure it is a healthy interest and not a sordid addiction.
It's always best to keep the lines of communication open.
Good luck.
TSx
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Message #:5015.3 in response to 5015.2
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Date:4-Nov 16:26
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Message: Hi
Thank you for your very helpful advice.Before i could ask him about it he told me what he was doing because he kind of notice me looked at the monitor.however we discuss it nicely like you indicated and it is understandable that he sometimes look at it.
thanks.
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Message #:5015.4 in response to 5015.3
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Date:4-Nov 23:19
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Message: Hello
So glad it's all cleared up and happy to have given some good advice!
TSx

Edited 04/11/2009 23:26 ET by twiceshy
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