hi i am so confused atm a while back me and this friend got real close and started seeing each other but neva slept with each other ( if that makes sense) we both fancied each other a lot and met up when we could ... we decided to call it quits about 6 months ago and we neva spoken after that but last night we spoken for the 1st time in 6 months basically i told him i still fancie him and he said that he still fancies me and that he thinks about when we met b4 and i told him that i think about them times aswell.

B4 when we wasn't together we missed each other loads and things was great when we met up we would kiss and then talk but nothing further happend.

Now here is the complicate bit.... the thing is that i am married and that he is in a relationship but i have always missed this person and from wot he says i think that he has missed me alot aswell.. i have been married 2 yrs and got a child with my DH and i have just found out that i am pregnant with my second child with my DH.

i know that i shouldn't feel like this about another person except my hubby but to be honest i can't help it.

i haven't told this other person that i am pregnant yet.

i don't no wot to do about any of this any advice woould be much apprecated.

i know the saying goes u can't help about the way u feel or who u fall for

thanks xx

Hi
Here is the deal....you want to know what to do?
Put a STOP to this...END this now.
You are pregnant for heaven's sake. Tell this guy you will not be contacting him again because you are married and pregnant and don't want to cheat on your DH.

Just end this...it can only lead to misery. You can't put your marriage and life in jeopardy for sexual fancy/fantasy.
Simple....end this even if you "feel " you don't want to.

TSx

You can't help how you feel but you can help what you do.

If you had a child with your partner and are now pregnant with another, there must have been something strong between you, not just animal lust.

Ask yourself what's missing that you feel you might get elsewhere and talk to your current partner and father of your child(ren) before you go look for (probably shortlived) romance and excitement elsewhere.

Best wishes xx

Hi,

This guy u fancy is not someone u have lived with. Fancying someone and living a life with that person are two different ball games all together. This guy is just tickling your hormone and gives u a feel good factor, which ur DH doesn't as he is busy taking care of you and the family, not to forget his work, etc.

Its okay to fancy someone, but again leave it to that. You are lucky to have the 2nd child. You should tell this person that you are pregnant. If he likes u, he will like u for who u are.

Its best u stay just friends with this person, or better find a new hobby to keep ur mind occupied.

Best of luck for the baby..