Hello Angel

I am good today.

Though I went to Ms bday gathering a week ago.

In a way it got worse friendswise.

In the library at the mo.
I will write  a longer responce later.

Whats up with u at the mo?
Flash

Hi Flash

How are you?

sorry to hear about the gathering not going well for you.

im still tryin to move on with my friendship issue,need your advice on this,am i being stupid? the other day i asked my friend for some advice on something minor,only to feel my questions are not important,as when she has a problem,im there straight away,her mind was still on her fella,so i took the hump wiv her,shes askin wast wrong,ive said i dont want to talk about it,cause i know it wont make a difference,so should i just move on with it or tell her why i was miffed,and also,i was talkin to her at breaktime,then she had a call of her chap,she answerd the phone and my conversation was cut,i had to get up and move away,beacause i thought shes not talkin to me so why stay,she didnt say anythin after,like it didnt matter to her,so again i was a bit anoyed,she knows there is something im miffed with,but what do i do,should i tell her how i feel or just forget about it,remember all my last posts,why are friendships so much like hard work?

Hey Angel

How u doing hun? You are not  being stupid. I knw how you feel.

I ring M, and she does not answer. When I am out with her, and  her fella rings, she spends loads of time on the phone, then carries on the conversation like nothing happens. Huh? How rude!

Or I phone her and  her bf is in the background, being silly, anoying and then me and M cant talk.

Also when I phone her, to talk bout somethingi important to me, and  she does not have time to talk to me cos her bf is round or something. I get that he is important etc but if its important enough topic. Eg our friendship she could come on the phone for 10 or more mins or something.  But no metter what what is I want to talk about, her bf is more important.

That is really hurtful. What bout you? You did the right thing walking away.

That will make her see something is wrong, and maybe it was her fault. It will be better if you tell her whats going on. I am sure will see what she is doing wrong. You need to be blunt with her, but put it nicely. So you dont stop talking completely. I think you need  a breat from each other. Talk to her less, but keep in touch with her.

Let me know what you think.

Take Care. Flash

Hi all,

I havent been on here for a while the past month has been worse my friend has seen me once,but didnt even talk to me properley as we were in a group,except constant put downs(which she said shes joking)it hurt so much. all the phone calls are becoming less frequent, the texts are non-existant. she doesnt even try at all now.ive been going through my own problems and not once is she there for me....makes me sick i was there for her for all her problems big or small.i feel totally alone now. i have no idea what to do now i hate giving up when iv put so much time in.

Anyway hows you angel and sizzler/flash i hope things are better for you, ive been reading another site past few days its helped a little but ive only got up to the 59th reply lol theres 202 .it might help you lot.

http://laura.moncur.org/archives/2004/04/03/2004-04-03-05-00/

hi shy

nice to hear from you,was thinkin how you all were doing.

shy,when i read your post,i thought again,oh no,your going through the same as me again,lol,my friends texes are getin shorter to,tell me what you think of this,i wasnt well over these past few days,stayed in bed all day,saturday,so i dont have my phone on that much anymore,now my friend doesnt text that much now( to bussy with her chap ) anyway,i swithced it on in the afternoon,she sent one tex sayin how was i,i replyed ,but then she didnt,all the rest of the day,so why bother sending texes if your not going to bother in replyin,does my head in,well to day she sent another one sayin,was i any better,so i didnt reply till about 3 hours after,i just left it short,i think i was just a stop gap,as her chap probley didnt tex her,so she used me,i think she wanted a reaction,from me,like i used to,i also get the impression she s playin mind games with me,as she knows ive no other friends to chill with,well im not into that im afraid.

why are our so called friends who we have cared for a gave a lot of out time and lovin to, so nasty to us,what have we done to deserve this,i cant belive they are so selfish and up on themselves.

im sorry shy,your friendship has not changed either,i was thinkin when you havent been on here for a while,you had made progress with your friend,i know what you mean whenyou say your alone,i feel the same to,you know we are wasting our lifes ovcer these so called friends of ours,makes me angry to,on havin to give it up also,because whats the point,they dont care for us,by treatin us this way.

if you feel like talkin more about this and in need of a friend,because i am to,i could send you my mo num,if you wanted a shoulder,cause i do at times ,and its not nice feeling your on your own.

i hope things do change around for you,and your friend wakes up and realise what a mistake she has made by treatin you bad,then comes round crawling back to you,beacause like i said,we dont deserve this treatment, well take care and remember im here,x