ARGH! hi guys im soooooooo frustrated and bored and fed up! I feel like my life is in complete standstill and has been for years !

All my mates are so boring- they never want to go out or have any fun or go on holiday! Iv made the effort to meet new people through friendship sites but they are all boring too! i love going out but hardly anyone is like that who i meet! Im just fed up of sitting in when my life should be so much better! theres loadsa thing i wana do but cant do them alone!

Also every guy i meet is a tosser who thinks they have a right to mess me round! Why do guys ask for your number when they have no intention of calling you? what a waste of time!

And in work im always treated like a child when im 23 and damn good at my job! I just feel like im at a standstill because im always dished out the crap jobs and expected to run round while everyone else lazes about!! Its a joke and i want a new job but cant find one i fancy the look of!

sorry i sound like a miserable cow but i need to get this off my chest coz iv had enough!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Nurse honey,

It does sound like you are really struggling with things at the moment. Can I ask you to go and talk to a doctor about how you feel. Whilst we can offer supportive words here at iVillage, when things have got so bad that you feel like this it's time to get some professional help.

Please try to explain how you feel and what is making you feel so unhappy and hopefully your GP will be able to point you in the right direction to start feeling better again SOON.

Big hugs to you

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