Hey there everyone! Not too sure where to post this....here goes...

I have always believed I am straight, never been attracted to a woman but the last four weeks I have been working out with a trainer - I know it's her job to make me feel relaxed, stretch me out afterwards, make me feel good etc etc but I find myself really sad when the hour is up cos I want to spend more time with her...we have the same sense of humour, love films etc, and we talk about fairly personal stuff - hers and mine -  so it ain't all business. Last week she said she may turn up for a class and I found myself putting my nicest-smelling moisturiser on, buying a new work out outfit in case she was there, it was crazy!!! I was really sad when she wasnt there!

I guess I am asking....does this sound like I am attracted to this woman!?! or is i just an attraction to the way she makes me feel? Not sure I could do the same sex love thing, can't imagine beyond kissing her..i;m really confused.

On top of that, I have no clue if she's gay or what! She always says our session goes fast, I am a bad influence(we have a right laugh during our sessions) etc etc...but again that could just be 'work'.

gah! help!!

Any advice GRATEFULLY RECEIVED!!!

Hey, I HOPE YOU ARE OK BUT ONE THING TO REMEMBER...EVERYONE FALLS IN LOVE WITH THEIR PERSONAL TRAINER

I bet she's fallen in love with you in some respects but it's probably not real. Move on, go to a gay club, lesbian sites and see if this a life you would really like to live. It's not easy but this reality check may help you realise what's involved and how u feel.