Good poll, but very thought provoking. What made you think of question?

Hi,

I have been going through a rough time with my husband. I am only 24 and have been married for one and a half years. I love my husband and nothing will change that but I make sure I tell him I love him at least once a day... but sometimes, I'm just saying it because I know he wants to hear it.

None of the above means that I don't love him. I do. I always will. But I think that sometimes we feel a pressure to be the 'perfect wife' whether or not it fits with how we are really feeling.

Anyway, I'm not sure that even makes sense. It's hard to put into words.

:-)

Hey,

I know exactly what you mean. Sometimes it can feel forced to have to say to your DH 'I love you' everyday. Like it's natural and everybody should do it. Me and DH don't say it every day to each other but when in that moment we want to say it. Sometimes DH will say 'I do love you' and I will simply say 'I know'. Not in a conceited way but that he justs wants me to know and I let him know that I do :)

Lol that probably doesn't make much sense but I get the meaning behind the question.