Hello Suzy and everyone

Its very quiet here these days - have we all moved on from moving on?  lol

Would be nice to know how everyone is doing.

I have met someone (yes really) and its early days but he's really nice and I like him. Haven't gone public on FB yet but even though it totally freaks me out I like him.

So that's my news?  How's everyone else?

Love,

Hiya Jen!

How lovely to hear your news! It is a bit of a ghost town on here lately, eh?? I was a bit scared to post my news as it all looks a bit me, me, me!!

Go on then. Spill woman! We want details please!

I dont have anything quite so exciting going on. Still very much enjoying being a Nana, we had DGD for a sleepover a couple of weeks ago and it was fabulous! even waking up for the 4am feed was good. She is such a treasure and has brought so much happiness to our family, I could just sit and look at her, and smell her (is that weird? Babies smell so lovely, dont they?) such a time-waster, but very lovely!

Well, in other news - exh and ow have split up! I know, its shocking news! Didnt see that one coming - MUCH!!!! Apparently she's a bit difficult and demanding. Surely not??? What happened to this woman who was so chilled and laid back and good fun to be with? Oh, hang on, perhaps real life got in the way of the romance? Maybe the fantasy of being together "one day" didnt quite live up to the reality of debating which toilet cleaner to buy or who's turn it is to put the bins out? Who knows?!

On a positive note, I think this year so far has made exh be a better father. We have actually discussed this and he says he now realises how little effort he had put in previously. Dont get me wrong, he was never a bad Dad, but didnt give it 100%, and since he has moved out he now makes his time with children quality time. They have all benefitted from it, including him, which can only be a good thing?

We have reached a sort of amicable stage. Our main priority is to be a good parenting team and so we do all school related stuff together etc and can chat over tea and be civil with each other. That feels quite good as its difficult to cut someone out of your life while you share children?

I think iv given up on the romance side of things. Have had a few dates, but im not sure im ready for anything else yet TBH. Im liking the calm, uncomplicated life i lead these days. I had always said I was taking this year out for me - to work things out and just be , well ME really! Its quite addictive! And still loving being a starfish BTW!! Ha ha!!

Id better dash, im sure i should be doing something practical?!!

Take care of you and Andrew, wishing you lots of luck with Mr Nice!

Lots of love

xx

Boooo!!! ;o)

It is really quiet on here isn't it?!

Oooh that is good news Jen!I'm so happy for you lovey!!Please tell more,you know I'm nosey and anyway,Angel wants to know too ;o)

I'm fine,plodding a long as usual.The kids keep me busy.Noah's turning in to a right rascal.He told Hannah she was a stupid girl the other day,the little bugger!

As you most probably know from elsewhere I'm ttc and on my 3rd clomid cycle which is driving me bonkers ans makes me shout at old people in the street pmsl!I had a right go at this old mad who nearly ran me and Noah over on the zebra crossing too.I went up to his car - put my hands on the bonnet and screamed,"It's a f***ing crossing!"

Oh dearly me!!!

Angel,that is good news for you too lovey.I'm really pleased that all seems to have calmed down now with the ex.Ohhh and what a shame they've split up...deary me,I don't think I'll sleep tonight for thinking about the poor souls ;o)

Enjoy your 'you' time lovey,you sound so much more happy now,bless you both...

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Ah you need to get up very early in the morning to beat me.  lol

Nice to see you on here sweetie!!  How's tricks?

Love,