Hi Jen, I am not sure if you will remember me, but you and a few others helped me deal with my break-up last year and in to this. Random idiot is, a year on, still living with his mother, having not found that ideal "bachelor pad", and has been commenting to mutual friends about how much better my life seems without him, which indeed it is. I have been on two hols, the first in May with a girlfriend, which was relaxing, and then in Sept - I went to portugal ON MY OWN and it was the most freeing thing! I am out most weekends, and, almost a year on from the split, I finally had sex with someone else. Sorry to be so blunt but MY GOD I thought I would never get naked with anyone again and I did, and you know what? It wasn't that big a deal (it was bloody good though!). I don't want a relationship at the moment as I am really enjoying being out and about and pleasing myself, but I have some great flirtations on the boil! And I intend to have a lot more sex before I commit myself to a long term relationship again!
I am so pleased to see you have a new fella, and please, please don't let your past relationships poison your view of this one, what will be will be and worrying about it will only give you wrinkles.
Love and kisses,

Kate

Sorry bout the crappy taste in TV - can I still hang around? Mind you have developed a bit of a girly crush on Simon Baker (The Mentalist and Guardian bloke). Could have him on toast!!!

Love,

Hi Kate

Of course I remember you and in fact was just thinking about you the other day and wondering how you were getting on.

So glad to hear you are happy and moved on and that ex is wondering why you look so happy and chilled out lol.  Its amazing what we get over in time isn't it? 

And get you getting down and dirty with someone else!!! Way to go KT!  I admit the first time I did the deed after evil scumbag (he doesn't even get capital letters now) it was awful and I hated it but now I have truly moved on and enjoying life again.

It was really good to hear from you again - don't be a stranger and I'm thrilled to hear you sound so happy.  I remember you got me through a few awful weekends at the start with talk of excess alcohol!!!

Lots of love.