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From:saffy2009
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Date:18-Oct 23:56
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hi everyone,

This is something that you might say it doesn't belong to this board but it is a little bit related and really bugging me.
I am still sore from the recent break up from BF of 4 years. I am trying to move on ,but most of the time I think about him and feel very lonely. I am independent with a good job and believe in equal share of the housework.(obviously this wasn't very comfortable for him.Despite this we lived more or less happy together and had serious plans but he was not willing to commit and kept in touch with other women behind my back so eventually I left and now I asked him not contact me as every weekend he started to go to parties where there are only Thai girls and English men. He is almost 50 and not particularly good-looking. I rather don't wish to know what his plans are now, so I have NC with him . I am still heartbroken and miss him secretly ,but it is better if I don't know what he is upto. I would like to know what people think about the fact that there is a lot of Thai girls in and around London, who are keen on getting English boyfriends. Do you think these relationships works? What would his grown up or teenage children think, or his parents , or his friends?

any opinion please appreciated
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Message #:4080.2 in response to 4080.1
From:cl-suzy2005  Member Icon
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Date:22-Oct 18:37
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Hi lovey,

You know what?Who cares?No...I mean it.I'm not being nasty towards you.If he wants to make a bloody fool of himself to all and sundry,be taken for a ride and be a laughing stock then let him get the hell on with it.You're better off well out of it pet and worth better than all that.

Well done on the NC!Good for you lovey.You'll get there pet..


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Message #:4080.3 in response to 4080.2
From:saffy2009
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Date:22-Oct 20:58
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Message: thank you, thank you, thank you.
I am still keeping NC (11 days) and getting a bit stronger every day. I am still missing him but like you said he is turning himself into a pathetic laughing stock and I do not need to know.
Still I am wondering do these relationships ever work ?

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Message #:4080.4 in response to 4080.3
From:cl-suzy2005  Member Icon
To:saffy2009
Date:23-Oct 10:05
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You're welcome :o)

I don't know petal...bit sad though eh??As I said,let him get on with it.Sounds a tad mid-life crisis if you ask me ;o)

Deary me...LOL!

Keep up the NC lovey..


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