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So here it is, the 'Lets Talk About Sex' Blow Job Tips. Thanks to everyone on the board who participated in giving their ideas. :)
Just a couple of notes of caution. Be very careful when using drinks and foods containing sugar if they come into contact with the vagina. Sugar can disturb the natural environment of the vagina and lead to the growth of yeast - which can mean thrush. Also do bear in mind that Sexually Transmitted Infections can be passed on during oral sex - So always be safe.
Enjoy. :)
Jay
1 Whatever you are doing, make direct eye contact with him.
2 Always take time to pay attention to his balls. Lick and suck them, maybe put them in your mouth and hum, the vibrations will drive him crazy.
3 Whilst you've got him in your mouth, cupping his balls in the palm of your hand, use the fingers of that same hand to touch his bum, anus and the bit in between his balls and anus - the perineum.
4 Spend a while flicking your tongue around the head of his penis and circling it..
5 Enthusiasm. You have to enjoy it. It's no good if you are just going through the motions.
6 If you don't want to swallow, use a tissue rather than running off to the bathroom. That‘s not sexy.
7 Try sucking his balls really hard. Some men may like that. Be cautious though, he may not.
8 Take a mouthful of cold liquid before putting him in your mouth.
9 Run your tongue along the underside of his penis then flick it over the head.
10 Always keep the penis wet. And rub with your fingers on the part below the head of the penis where it meets the shaft, the frenulum.
11 Alternate between: hard, short sucks on the top half of his penis (like sucking a baby bottle)
and long, slow, sexy sucks all the way from the bottom of his penis to the top (like sucking a big lollipop)
12 Hold his penis near the bottom and then gently, using slow sucks, go from top to bottom so you can feel his whole penis in your mouth. Then by using your tongue, circle the head. When he's ready to come, you can start by tickling or squeezing his balls gently or kissing his inner thighs.
13 Do exactly the same as the above but stop when you have circled the head for a while, then use your hand to masturbate him. When he is ready to come, place him back into your mouth and swallow his semen. If you prefer not to swallow, tell him he's in control, then let him come over your thighs, bum, stomach or breasts.
14 With your free hand, hold his hand while you are performing oral on him.
15 Talk to him. Ask what he likes, try new things and ask how it was for him after.
16 Suck on a mint beforehand.
17 Have him sit in a chair or stand. It’s easier on the neck and jaw and it is a good view for the man.
18 Slowly spiral clockwise up and counter clockwise down his shaft with your tongue.
19 Warm your mouth with a hot drink beforehand.
20 Do it while in the bath, keep some water in your mouth at the same time.
21 Have a mouth full of something bubbly, like a soft drink or fizzy alcohol drink then slide him into the bubbles.
22 Suck gently and lick the glans and tip of his penis while using your hand on the shaft.
23 Suck an ice lolly in-between sucks. The cold will intensify his sensations and also the numbness in your mouth makes easier to deep throat.
24 Use sherbet powder in your mouth, while licking and sucking.
25 Cover your teeth with your lips while going down on him to prevent grating. It makes it feel as if he is going into a tight vagina.
26 Take your time, rather than going fast. Make love to his penis with your eyes at the same time.
27 Use your teeth. Be careful. Make his penis really wet with your saliva first to prevent teeth catching on dry skin. Look at him directly with a wicked glint in your eyes. Put the head of the penis into your mouth first, then slide your teeth gently and slowly, down the wet shaft, then back up again. Just tease, rather than scrape. Be careful with teeth on the head, as it may just be too sensitive. You can also use your teeth sideways on, gently nibbling all down the shaft.
28 Use a string of pearls, wrap them around a well lubricated shaft and run them slowly up and down, varying both speed and pressure
29 Use some Thai beads (from sex shops) inserted in his anus. Pull them out while he is coming in your mouth. .
30 Drape your hair over his penis and testicles, in between sucking or licking.
31 Just after the point of orgasm place your tongue on the tip of the penis and gently rub it back and forth.
32 Aim to give him a second erection and orgasm straight after the first by keeping him in your mouth and starting over again.
33 Take the head of his penis in your mouth. Use the tip of your tongue on his frenulum (where the head meets the shaft) and push it up and down very quickly so it is vibrating against this sensitive spot, while the rest of your mouth is sucking gently on the head of the penis
34 The perineum, the area between the balls and his anus, is a hotspot for your probing tongue.
35 Rub the end of his penis with the palm of your hand. It needs to be wet though so this is a good one in the shower or bath or if you use a lot of saliva.
36 Do it while in the shower.
37 This is a little 'variety pack' to keep him interested.. Start off with the mouth using various techniques. Then put his penis in between your breasts. Then move onto using your hand with plenty of lubrication. Then get on top for intercourse. Then go back to using your mouth. And so on...
38 Say in the morning, "Tonight I'm going to suck you until you explode in my mouth". Let him anticipate the event all day.
39 While you are in control in the woman on top position, stop what you are doing, don’t say anything. Get off, look him directly in the eyes and say “Now, I want to taste myself”, then slide him in your mouth.
40 Lie on your back, have him straddle your body with his thighs against your breasts and he pushes his penis in your mouth from there. Stroke his balls and hold his bottom at the same time. You do need to have a signal for him to pull away, though, because you can't indicate it by moving away.
41 Use the liqueur Creme de Menthe in your mouth. It has a pleasant cool sensation on his penis.
42 He may not like hard sucking. So wet your lips and gently slide them over the head of the penis instead.
43 Try putting 2 or 3 chocolate buttons on his erect penis. The heat will melt the chocolate and double the pleasure.
44 Pull the foreskin back, and gently lick and stroke just under the head.
45 While paying attention to his balls with your mouth, have your fingers pointing down, like you're holding a bottle by the top with your fingertips and tease the head by gently "twisting" clockwise/counter-clockwise.
46 While giving head, use one hand to cup his balls in the palm and use the fingers of that hand to push against the perineum, the area between his balls and his anus.
47 If you take him quite far into your mouth, use your tongue on the head. This is enjoyable as it adds an element of surprise as they expect your tongue to be further down.
48 Use a flavoured lubricant or gel specifically for oral sex. You can buy them from sex shops.
49 Whilst you have the head in your mouth, use your hand on the shaft at the same time, starting slowly, getting faster and your grip getting tighter
50 Lick the frenulum. That is the area where the shaft and the glans of the penis meet on the underside. It is very sensitive.
51 If you can, deep throat, but do it when he is not expecting you to do it. So start off like you would normally, then all of a sudden, deep throat.
52 Use Space Dust. The sizzle, crack, fizz sweet will give him great sensations.
53 Before you even start with taking him in your mouth, kiss or gently nibble his inner thighs and waistline
54 Put ice in your mouth to chill your mouth first.
55 While he is still soft, gently kiss, lick and suck and feel him harden and lengthen in your mouth.
56 Talk to him. Tell him how it is for you. Like “I love sucking you”, “You taste so good”, “You are so big and hard in my mouth, I love it”, “I want you to come in my mouth” Make sure you are looking him in the eyes at the same time.
57 If you find oral sex difficult then use your mind to get yourself ready for this beforehand, by using sexy fantasy. You may have to practice using the fantasy quite a bit for it to become effective. The objective is to turn you on. The more it turns you on, the more it will turn him on.
58. While doing it, tell him how much it turns you on and how wet it is making you. Tell him how much you have been looking forward to sucking him and making him come all day.
59 After he has come into your mouth, hold the semen there, give him a real sexy look then move up his body and slowly dribble the semen out of your mouth. If he likes it, you can slowly dribble it from your mouth into his.
60 While he is in your mouth, use a well lubricated finger and insert it into his anus. Curl your finger towards his front and use the finger tip to massage his prostate gland. It is shaped similar to a walnut.
61 You can also massage the prostate externally by putting pressure on the perineum to find it. This is the area between the balls and the anus.
62 Start with gently breathing on his penis. Then blow hot air onto it.
63 Use your tongue only first. Gently tease his whole penis and balls, all over until he is begging for more. Only when he can wait no more, then take him in your mouth
64 Give him a really good view. Make sure there is a mirror behind you so that you can open your legs and he can see how aroused you are.
65 Give him a really good visual with the sexy underwear and stockings, long painted nails and lipstick while you wrap your fingers around his penis and push him in between those painted lips.
66 Just put his head of the penis in your mouth, and say "Honolulu" 20 times.
67 Use Nutella or chocolate spread on his penis and lick it off
68 When he walks in the front door, surprise him at the door, looking sexy. Drop to your knees before he has a chance to move and tell him you have been waiting to do this all day and then proceed to pleasure him.
69 Well, we can't forget getting some more pleasure for yourself while pleasing him. Surprise him by climbing on top of him in the 69 position.
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