I am curious or daft, how can you talk to a man you have not met, was it over the phone?

From the info you have given I would say it is immpossible to tell if you prefer women, and unless you make it very obvious to the casual observer becasue you have already deceided, then no one can tell just by looking at you. Does that make sense?

As you have given no detail of your experience of men and their sexual activities, it is hard to know what you feel about them when in their company. However, there appears to be two possible answers to your question. 1.A lot of women who enjoy sex just for the pleasure of it, are very happy with and enjoy any experience they get of a mans semen. That is they like to see it, to see a man cum, have it on their skin, inside any and every orifice and other possibilities that others might like to mention on here. 2. Most women in life long partnerships find their man's semen to be very special to them in many ways, and giving the joy and pleasure to their man that produces the semen to be used fro procreation or just pleasure, is something that is hard to put into words. However, I can imagine that before they came into that haoppy state, perhaps the thought of it, and coming into contact with it, was a bit off putting.

As you are not involved with a man who is the centre of your life, then you perhaps cannot imagine just what I am talking about, but one day maybe you will.

Does that help?

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Hey,

You say at the end lol which suggests you don't really think you prefer women, so what is your real question?

If the idea of a man's cum does not turn you on does not mean you would prefer women. That is not really an uncommon "aversion".

What will give you an idea as to whether you prefer men or women is how you feel inside when you see a good looking man or woman. Which gender gets you tingling here it matters?

Hi Heidi,

I imagine you were talking to them online...?
I think I would be a little disgusted too. I find it much harder (if not impossible) to be sexually attracted to someone I'd never met - you can be attracted to them definitely, but not sexually I think - so I'd be very put off knowing about a stranger's, err, "amounts."

The thing is (and please correct me someone if I'm wrong) but my understanding of the male anatomy is that if a guy has had sex recently, he won't ejaculate as much as if he'd had a bit of a drought. It kind of gets stored up, if that makes sense? So what I'm trying to say is that if you do get into a sexual relationship with either of these guys, the quantities will fluctuate.

I don't think this aversion means you fancy women.

:-)