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Discussion Title:It doesnt happen sometimes :-(
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From:honeybee2304
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Date:19-Oct 21:59
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Hi,

I am needing a little advice so i will try and keep this as simple as possible and try not to sound wierd or something haha.

Me and my partner have been together 3 months, we love each other very much but have never actually had a major sex life. He has a high sex drive and mine i suppose is medioca. Anyway, there is an age difference between us and im mentioning this as i think maybe this could be a factor to my problem - im 21 and he is 39.

My problem being that, he hasnt ventured in the bedroom department much. Missionary and thats about it so he wants to try new things which i am more than happy with but sometimes we bearly even get to sex before he.... "ya know" lol. I now try to keep foreplay to a minimum hoping he wont get too excited, but that isnt working either and it is really really frustrating. We dont see each other every single day. Mostly on weekends which i suppose doesnt help either so when it comes to the weekend i dont want to be let down. "He gets what he wants and i dont" if you know what i mean :-(

Is there any advice for things i could do - or more to the point dont do lol. I get really annoyed and sometimes get a little moody with him even though i shouldnt.

Thanks for reading sorry if i have gone on or even not given enough info

xx

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