Hiya SCC,

i totally know where your are coming from i am one year older then you just had bday this month ouch...i have never been married before...my mates who are guys say i am a great person and cant understand why i am single....sad but i kinda start looking for faults in myself which guys dont like being not so skinny, not attractive, not having long hair stupid things rite ? but by saying this i guess i have a reason so it is less hurtful.  People say sometimes u you have wait longer for mr right, wen u least expect it , it will happen, enjoy life and being with yourself etc which i am tired of hearing...everyone i know has found mr right, settled down, got kids etc...me just stuck by myself like forever really..lst relationship i had was like 4 years...since then met weirdoes from site/friends etc nothing.  For men easier they can have kids whenever they want even as a pensioner lol..us women have not got that freedom as time is of the essence.  I have my family with without them wud go mental really..well looks like my younger sis who is like 8 years older then me will prob get hitched before me lol.

Hun you are not alone..having read through many post on here..so many of us feel like that.

take care

x