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Discussion Title:New Year for Singles
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Date:5-Nov 03:58
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What do singles get up to for New Years eve when friends are coupled up or working?

Suggestions helpful especially on a budget.  Would love to go to a party locally ideally ......

cheers

 

Curly

 

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Date:5-Nov 10:02
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Oh god, I am dreading this! In the many years that I have been alone, I've tried doing both options. Going out AND staying in that is.

When I stayed in and tried to go to sleep like any normal night, I found I was woken at midnight by all the noise from the streets outside. SO I tried going to a house party (should be fine shoudln't it) except I was gutted at midnight to feel utterly and completely alone!

I think what you do depends on how you feel about your single status. Local house party is the best option I think - sleeping tablets and earplugs if you just want the night to be over!

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Message #:1285.3 in response to 1285.2
From:curlycrystal  Member Icon
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Date:5-Nov 12:06
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Hi Mellers

Thanks for you're email.  Yes I like the house party idea myself...jus need to find someone who is holding one near by....

My New Years eves have never been that amazing single or not to be honest.....but I am sure I will works something out.

If anyone has anymore suggestions...keep em rolling.

 

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Anna

 

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Message #:1285.4 in response to 1285.3
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Date:5-Nov 12:37
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Message: Hi Anna!!

I have always dreaded new year as a singleton. I've never been that keen on it to be honest. I think it's a huge fuss over something that's not really that big a deal! There is this perceived expectation that everybody should be doing something amazing. I don't like the fact that pubs and clubs charge a fortune on the door and they don't provide anything special in return like a free glass of champers, or limit the number of guests so you're not packed into a crowded room, they simply do it to get extra money in the till, grrrr! House parties are good if you know you'll be among friends, but still a nightmare if you need to get a taxi home - even if you can secure one they charge extortionate rates, double grrrrr!

It's a shame we feel "sad" if we choose to spend the evening indoors alone. There are often Saturday evenings where all you feel like doing is being all cosy with a bottle of wine, a takeaway and a DVD - not because you're "billy no mates" but because you can't be arsed going out, even if you know your friends are doing stuff they'd be happy to include you in!

I have no idea as yet what I'll do for this coming NYE. It is also my birthday at the end of December and I have made no plans for that as yet. People often decline invitations to celebrate my birthday because they're saving their money for NYE, or they might be off visiting relatives. If I end up "celebrating" both on my jack jones, I shan't feel inadequate or sorry for myself.

Sorry, that's not really given you any more ideas but I think you are veering towards finding a house party. If it looks like nobody is having one, could you arrange one of your own? That might be a lot of fun and it means you only have to climb the stairs at the end of the night and not worry about expensive taxis :)

But if you do decide to see in the new year by yourself, don't feel like you're a saddo LOL. Just stock up on supplies of your favourite treats and get a couple of really good DVDs in. One I recently watched and thoroughly enjoyed was "In Her Shoes" with Cameron Diaz and Toni Collette, really feel-good chick movie so I could recommend that :)

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From:cl-alllurvedup  Member Icon
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Date:5-Nov 12:40
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Hi,

Yes houseparties are good cos they cost very little and yet it's fun. The only danger is that you'll be stranded at midnight.

For many years I used to work at my local pub on NYE. It suited me fine as I was out "celebrating" but not drinking plus the hours and the tips were great.

Now that pub has closed down, last year I think I spent the evening with my little (16 yr old) sister watching Meet the Fockers while my parents were out. I remember thinking beforehand how it was pretty sad that our parents were out, and we were in, but we had a good night.

This year, I don't know. I always toy with the idea of going into London to see friends there, but I decide against it.
Might invite a friend who I'm pretty sure is still single and doesn't have many friends in the area and who I haven't seen for ages over for a quiet night in cos I haven't made any effort recently.

I know, in the past, we've had a virtual NYE party on iVillage. I'm not sure what happens - but I remember publicising it.

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